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Single

Updated: Sep 4, 2020


Single lives are often judged by people who don't know exactly what they are going through. Singles have to endure until they find their soul mates. It is possible to enjoy being single by focusing on becoming the best person you can be. It is not a time to be depressed or lonely, it is an opportunity to work towards your goal and ideal vision of who you really want to become.

Ten tips for being single and happy.

1 Freedom

2 Pamper yourself

3 Engage in hobbies

4 Financial benefits

5 Encourage yourself

6 Forget your Ex-lover

7 Be happy

8 Helping other people

9 Make plans for your future

10 Learn how to do things alone


1 Freedom

Treasure your new-found freedom of being alone by having your quiet time at home. The best way to enjoy being single is to be free of your thoughts that you are lonely, instead enjoy the freedom of not sacrificing your time and plans because of your partner. Always create time with yourself anytime, any day, remember that inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions. Enjoy your space.


2 Pamper yourself

You don't need anyone to treat you right before you focus on showering yourself with love. Even if you don't have someone to impress or please you, doesn´t mean you should stop doing nice things for yourself. A candlelight dinner at the restaurant, a movie at the cinema or buying yourself a new outfit are ways you can pamper yourself with love. Always remember that you are a strong person who deserves the best.


Engage in hobbies

Apart from the usual hobbies, you like doing, try new things like skiing, hiking, boating, riding a horse or camel etc. It is the best time to educate and entertain yourself with new hobbies that interest you.


4 Financial benefits

When you are dating, you spend more because you always try to impress your partner with gifts, shopping, outings etc. The benefit of being single is that your budget for two now is only for you, so it's a great opportunity for you to plan, save, and invest in your future.


5 Encourage yourself

Be positive by lightening your mood always. Stand in front of the mirror and laugh, laughter helps in relieving you of stress and thoughts of being single. Daily positive change to yourself can make you feel happier day by day. Start by writing a short note with a smiley emoji attached to words like " I am strong" "I am intelligent" "I am beautiful etc and paste in places you pass often in your home. Whenever you see this message on the fridge, wardrobe or bedside lamp, these will definitely encourage you to become the best person you want to be.

6 Forget your ex-partner

Love is beautiful and amazing, but it is not everything in life. Love yourself first, understand that things happen for a reason. Help yourself by relieving yourself of memories by removing their pictures, deleting phone numbers and blocking them on social media if it makes you better. Be cautious before going into a new relationship, take your time before considering dating again.


7 Be happy

Happiness isn't something that just happens to you, it comes from within. Approach every day with positive thoughts, mingle with friends on social media and gatherings, keep items that will make you truly happy. Make sure where you live is a serene and comfortable environment that makes you feel better. Engage in a new activity by spending a few minutes each day writing about something that gives you joy in your diary. Never give room to depression or loneliness, if you find yourself in a depressed state, reach out or talk to a mental health professional to help you deal with it.

8 Helping other people

People that live only for themselves have no higher purpose in their lives. Look outside yourself and begin to help others willingly by having a trip to the orphanage or hospital to visit and donate can lighten your mood and make you contented that at least you made a positive move to put smiles on other people faces which is a very good and valuable thing. Visit the home for the aged ones, encourage and buy gifts for them, it's indeed a great job that you will forever remind you of the good memories you had with them.


9 Make plans for the future

Embracing your time being single will make you discover your hidden potential by making a positive decision on what to do. Set your goals, no matter how impossible it may be. Look ahead of you into the future like what will I be in the next ten years? Never give up! Plan for your future by focusing on that career, job or business you are naturing. You will be able to achieve a complete and fulfilled future.


10 Learn how to do things alone

The singular word "I" should be used often than "We" which you were referred to in the past. Don´t be too afraid to engage in activities that involve only you. Create an adventure for yourself, travel, meet new people, Explore different places alone. Don´t be shy to mingle, make sure you develop self-awareness by involving your self in what will give you happiness.

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